I drop a lot of shows because of this, like, that wanker doesn't deserve you, no.
Yes, yes, exactly. Thank you. I feel like such a wet blanket for not being able to tolerate this sort of stuff when so many people I know do, and enthusiastically at that.

And you're right, I think it is the work aspect that makes it so appealing, because it shows the character really means it and will sacrifice to follow through.